/Advice

- Is female ejaculation real? And if it is real, what’s the difference between that and peeing?

- How do girls squirt? (Question submission to filthygorgeousfix.com)


Female ejaculation is real.

Female ejaculation comes from heavy g-spot stimulation. With stimulation, the paraurethral glands  - most likely the Skene’s glands -  expel a clear fluid similar to male prostatic fluid (so it’s not urine), and this tends to coincide with orgasm. Some women ejaculate easily, some never ejaculate, and some rarely do, and this is most likely tied to both physiological and psychological factors.

Is ejaculation desirable? Maybe. I’ve been told by partners that I’ve ejaculated, but I've never seen it myself, and each time I thought I was just unusually wet. In other words, my orgasm didn’t feel any different. I’d come and come hard, but it felt the same as any other powerful orgasm. The end result was just a little wetter.

Since my own experience with ejaculation hasn't been very dramatic, I contacted a friend who ejaculates often and I asked her what it feels like.

Her words: “It’s hard to describe. It feels like I need to let go, like there’s some kind of tension in there that needs to be released. But it’s different from an orgasm. It usually happens with an orgasm, so it just makes my body feel different. It’s just like a huge release. And I guess that makes it hotter, the way you see and feel that release.” But the downside? “It’s pretty messy and if you’re not expecting it, or you haven't told your partner in advance, it can be awkward.”